on top of one of his fans during his lively performance and sunk the heel of his boot into another woman’s face. (See video on the right)…Another star is in trouble with the IRS. The IRS hit the popular singer, Mary J. Blige with a $3.4 million tax lien, according to court records. That’s on top of separate liens she supposedly owes New Jersey, where she has a luxury home in Saddle River. According to records, the 43-year-old R & B singer got notice from the IRS of the $3.4 million lien in February. The IRS filed the same lien again in March in Westchester. Blige owns homes in both places. The IRS said in its lien that Blige failed
to pay all her income taxes for the past several years. According to TMZ, which first reported the lien, Blige owes the IRS $574.907 from 2009, $2.2 million from 2010 and $647,604 from 2011. This latest blow to Blige’s bank account is just one of many. New Jersey officials have said the award-winning songstress owes them $901,769 in back taxes…Another person in tax trouble? According to TMZ, Beyonce’s dad and former manager, Matthew Knowles, owes the I.R.S. $1.2 million dollars going back to the days when he 
managed his daughter’s career. All eyes are watching to see if Beyonce will step in to save her dad?…It is said that 24 years ago, Arsenio Hall and Paula Abdul were heavy into a hot romance. But something happened and it didn’t work out. Now, Arsenio,58, and Paula, 50, are back dating again. Hall says Abdul is the best girl in the world. BTW…Hall returns to late night TV on September 9th…Update On The Wedding Gifts Scenario: Washington Redskins quarterback Robert Griffin III, who has a $4 million contract for this year, plans to marry Rebecca Liddicoat on July 6, (pictured on left) and somehow it leaked out to his fans that they’re registered at the store Bed, Bath & Beyond. There are over 200 items on the couple’s registry and the word is that they have been bombarded by their fans with boxes filled with gifts since it leaked. Now, Twitter is aflitter with negative comments from some Redskin fans who think Robert is flaunting the stupidity of his fans. We hear the most expensive items have already been purchased by fans who I guess just want to be in the mix with their idol. Duh! Things like ice-cream makers and jerky machines have already been purchased. Hopefully, they will at least get an autograph out of it.The Bad Side
To
Living Together…
Not Married
by Coco Diong
When my neighbor told me that she was selling her house to move in with her boyfriend, I suggested that she rent it out instead, just in case the relationship took an unexpected curve. Luckily, she took my advice. Six months after she moved in with him, she came home unexpectedly from work and caught him in a very indiscreet position with another woman. Fortunately, her house hadn’t been rented, and she was able to move back home. MORE
When You
Make More
Than Him
by Elsa K. Simcik
Here’s the scene: A woman’s spending way too much time around the cheese tray at her neighbor’s drab get-together when suddenly, a tall, slightly handsome guy approaches. After about 30 seconds of swapping stories about how they each know Trish (host of said drab gathering), he predictably asks her, “So, what do you do?” MORE
No Love Match Yet? 
Maybe…You’re
On The ‘B’ List
by K.L. Mincey
I was crying too, as I held the hand of a close friend whose ex-boyfriend’s wedding had occurred that morning. I was feeling pity for the both of us. She was distraught, because she had been involved with him for over five years in a relationship she deemed marriage-bound, and he had chosen to marry someone else. They had taken trips together, exchanged expensive gifts and pledged their undying love, and she had been blown away by “the betrayal.” Like me, she had never been married and it was a lifelong ambition to be so. MORE
Single Again
And Scared…
The End Of A Love
by Zena Lucas
Four months ago, I made the decision to end a five year marriage. I did it because of my inability to go on in an unfulfilling and completely unacceptable situation. It was a hard decision to make (although I do not and have never regretted it) and has proven to be an even harder one to live with. MORE
5 Things To Do 
When You Meet
Someone New
by Coco Diong
1. Opt for a natural, easygoing manner that’s revealing, but not historical. Too often, when we meet someone with possible potential, we either give away too much, too soon or work hard to paint a phony picture of how great we are. When one is down to earth and comfortable enough with themselves to be themselves, they usually possess an infectious spirit that is longed for when they are not around. Don’t work to say or do things to impress. Be an original. MORE
Who’s Doing
All The Loving?
Take Our Quiz
Think about your current relationship. Are you really getting the payoffs you want? Are you really happy? Or, is it one-sided with him/her reaping all the benefits, while you float in and out of misery? Check off the following statements that apply to you and see for yourself if you’re where you ought to be! MORE
First Date Dialogue
How To Really Get to Know
The One You’re With…
One of the hardest things to do is to get a true idea of who the person really is sitting across the table from you on a first date. When you meet someone new, and you want to really break the ice and find out who they are, try asking some of these provocative questions. MORE
The Dating Chronicles posted May 17, 2013
Story Of The Week
The Move
It had been a long day and Chuck was exhausted as he leaned against the door of his apartment. He struggled to find the key, and he wished again that he had an alternative to the decision he had to make. He wanted his live-in girlfriend Lyn to move out, and he didn’t know how to tell her. MORE
The Bachelorette 
posted May 17, 2013
Diaries
by Jazz Miller
It was a Friday afternoon, and I felt good as I walked from my car to my last appointment. For a change, I wasn’t dreading another weekend because I didn’t have a date. I was looking forward to renting some movies, and enjoying a glass of red wine with my favorite meal when I got home. MORE
“My Worst
Date Ever!”
by C. Pumar
I had gone on many blind dates, but this was by far the worst in memory. My date and I had met over the phone and he sounded dreamy. He had a deep voice and an easy laugh, and I couldn’t wait to see if I had finally met someone with potential. He seemed like a clean spirit and I was tired of jaded men. We talked on the phone for two full weeks before we finally met, and when we did, I was very pleased that his face and body matched his voice. He invited me out to dinner. MORE
