How To Get
What You Want
by Terri Smith
I finally learned the secret to getting true romance the way I want it. It took some bangs and scratches along the way, which involved crying my heart over many, a “star-studded jerk.” But I finally got it.
Here are the best ways to captivate the interest and heart of the guy of your choosing. In other words, strategize instead of dramatizing.
Never show anger – When you feel wronged – perfect an impassive look – When you don’t telegraph your emotions, it throws the guilty party off balance into a state of bewilderment.
Don’t complain -If he/she is acting strange or suddenly aloof. When things feel shaky … disappearing works well to help your partner get a clear picture of what you will accept and what you will not.
Strategize – There are things you don’t like, but he/she doesn’t listen to your issues – give the relationship a break…move away until you can get his attention.
Have a hobby – Have other things in life you enjoy other than him/her.
Communicate – Let him/her know what you like and never accept less than that. This includes behavior, attention, gifts, commitments, etc.
Holler when it hurts. Spank his/her’s ego with soft words and kisses, but never fail to express your feelings.
Be mysterious – Always keep him/her guessing to some extent. Don’t tell them everything or let them see everything. Keep at least one door in your life closed.
Measure your compromise factor – Never put his/her wants and desires above yours, especially if they’re in conflict.