The Singles Scene
by Sarah Smart
Q. I am losing sleep because I’m currently seriously involved with two women. One is pregnant. However, I’m in love with the one who is not pregnant. I’m ready to marry the one I love, but my conscience is really bothering me about not marrying the one who’s carrying my child. Am I wrong for not wanting to marry her just to give my child a name?
A. You need to MAN UP and do the right thing! Marriage should be based on love, not an obligation. You should marry for the right reasons, not out of a guilty conscience. You should also make a commitment to take care of the child and be honest about it if you decide to marry the other woman. Tell the truth and get some sleep.
Q. I live in a high-rise building and I’m dating a guy who lives four floors above me. I suspect he’s seeing someone else and it’s driving me crazy. The other night I saw him through the window as he got out of his car with another woman and walked into the building. But when I called him, he didn’t answer his phone. Should I confront him or leave him? What do you say?
A. Leave him. It seems the relationship is too close for comfort.
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