SingleScenes – 1-4-25

SingleScenes

by Sarah Smart

Q.  I have never felt so betrayed! For two years, I was involved with a guy I cared a lot for.  During that period, my best friend despised him and did quite a bit to discourage me from the relationship.  She always accused him of cheating and suspected him of trying to date another friend of ours.  Then we broke up and suddenly she was dating him and not talking to me.  I am so hurt by what she did and I want revenge.  I know that she’s stealing from her job and I’m thinking about sending her boss an anonymous note.  The thought of revenge gives me great satisfaction.  What would you do?

A. I would do nothing with regard to revenge.  I would just faze them out of my mind.  She’ll get payback, because what goes around always comes around.

Q.   Last month, I met a great guy at a party.  We went out one time and had an evening that involved intimacy, but he never called again.  We made a connection and I know it and I’m certain he misplaced my number because he seemed too impressed not to call.  Do you think it would be stupid to track him down him and ask why I have not heard from him?   My friends all say leave it alone. But, I can’t sleep at night and I believe it was Fate that we met.

A.   I think you have nothing to lose.  Just make sure you have your big girl panties on and your ego in check just in case he is no longer as thrilled as you are and expresses it.  But on the positive side, he may be injured for some reason or other and unable to call.

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