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by Sarah Smart

Q.  I have a serious problem. I am scheduled to marry my longtime girlfriend in 30 days, but I’m seriously contemplating canceling the wedding because she recently confessed that she dated my brother a year before she met me.  My brother has never mentioned it, and I understand why.  We have always had an unspoken rule about dating the same woman.  The thought of going behind my brother is troublesome.  I find it difficult now to even see her in the same light because my brother and I both have had her.  What do you think?

A.  I think you should postpone the wedding until you’ve had a chance to process your feelings. No one can help you with this decision but you.  However, I think the past should be left in the past. 

Q.  My best friend and I met the same guy at the same party, and we were both attracted to him. All of us exchanged business cards, but because my friend and I have an honest relationship, we discussed our mutual attraction.  Now, we are trying to come up with a fair way to determine which one of us should pursue him.  Any suggestions?

A.  Huh! I think y’all should let him do the choosing.  Meanwhile, the two of you need to go somewhere and cool out and see which one he pursues.

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