by Sarah Smart
Q. I am currently dating a guy who also happens to be my neighbor. The problem is that he seems to watch my every move through his window and then has the need to tell me every time he sees me go in or out, which is driving me crazy. I really like him, but he is very easy to get angry. I don’t know how to mention it without setting him off. What would you do?
A. Find someone else to date. Obviously, he’s too close for comfort, and his temperament is another strike against him.
Q. I am currently dating a guy who is twelve years younger, and I’m very paranoid about it. I don’t trust him, and I’m afraid to let him out of my sight. Whenever I see him talking to a woman close to his age, I feel sick inside. I really like this guy, but I’m miserable when he’s not around. I can’t figure out why he’s with me and it’s driving me crazy. He drives my car (BMW) and whenever he returns it, I go over it like a detective looking for evidence of another woman. What can I do to stop being so suspicious?
A. End the relationship, and seek out someone more in your age group, where perhaps you can feel more secure and find some personal peace.
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