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5 Ways To Tell How

Connected You Are?

by Jovan Tahale

There are millions of singles in this country who live alone, and many have no close ties to their neighbors or their families.  Some live in a vacuum with little or no personal connection to others.  Studies show that out of those with close friendship ties, only 25% of their friends know who to contact for them in case of an emergency.  Are you one of them? 

In my own situation, I came to realize that I didn’t know any of my neighbor’s phone numbers, and none of my friends knew how to reach my family in case of emergency.  (I do well if I talk to my family once a week.)

I also realized that it is important to establish patterns with people, so that if something happens and you need help, your pattern of behavior will alert others that something is wrong.

Cases In Point:  Some years ago when a woman who lived alone was attacked and left for dead by an ex-boyfriend.  (He had cut the screen out of a bedroom window that was left open and entered her home undetected, while she was sleeping. ) she lay unconscious and bleeding on the floor all night from several stab wounds, and would have bled to death if her neighbor hadn’t noticed her car had a flat tire and tried to reach her.   When she didn’t answer the phone or the door, her neighbor used a key she’d been given for an emergency and found her. 

A friend’s brother was in the morgue for over two weeks because he didn’t have any ICE (in case of emergency) contact on him when he dropped dead while jogging.

Therefore, if you live alone,  it is vitally important that:

  1. Someone you trust has a key to your home.
  2. You give the phone numbers of your family to close friends.
  3. You establish a pattern of regular communication with a friend or family member, so that a red flag will go up if no one hears from you.
  4. You know the phone number of at least one neighbor, and give them yours.
  5. You carry identification on you at all times with an In Case Of Emergency number or put it in your cell phone.

A few years ago in the building where I live, it was discovered that my neighbor who lived across the hall, had been dead over a week in his apartment.  The police had been called because of the odor, but none of the man’s family had missed him, because he was a loner.  Don’t be a loner.  Share your important information with someone.  You never know when they might need it to help you.

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