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Dream Guys

On “The Dream

Girl” Search

by Theo McNee

March 28, 2018

I know it’s hard to imagine that the good-looking, well-dressed guy walking in front of you with swag galore, could consciously be dreading another evening at home alone.  Because of his looks and appearance, you could be speculating on how many women he must have and how active his social life is.  You assume he is satisfied, because of what he looks like, but little do you know that it is highly possible that he too…

  • is bored with the whole dating scene.
  • is having a hard time meeting the “right” woman.
  • is unattached and available.
  • Is spending many evenings at home alone dreaming of his ideal mate, or the one who got away.

I ought to know because I’m one of them and like many I’m currently without a significant other by choice.  It is a common belief among women that good-looking guys who seem to have it together have no reason to be alone.  Statistics say that women outnumber men 5 to 1.  Therefore, it seems guys have the advantage, but I’ve discovered there are a large number of desirable brothers who are holding out for Ms. Right.   Some are daydreaming, as we pass you in a car, about the woman in our dreams and silently hoping that she’s waiting at the next stoplight.  Are we just hard to please or are our wants realistic?  You be the judge.  I talked to several guys who expressed their true feelings about what they’re looking for.

ME:  37 – Journalist

I’m looking for the perfect woman for me, and I believe I will know her, when it’s time, upon introduction.  I’m tired of trying to figure it out.  I want the one who’s a perfect fit for me in spirit, attitude, values and taste, and I expect to be zapped when I meet her.

DONALD: 36 – Police Detective

“I need a woman who’s thinking when I’m not, whose delivery of ideas, critiques and overall observations are served to me on a sugar-coated platter.  She has to be more than pretty.”

CARL:  31 – Accountant

“She has to have patience.  Impatient women have a tendency to be overbearing.  I like a woman with good self-esteem, but who understands her role as a woman.”

SCOTT:  34 – Chef

“She’ll have to be in church, and it should be reflected in her behavior.  I meet too many who go to church, but their actions don’t reflect their claim.”

JOHN:  29 – Sports Agent

“My ideal woman will be fearless and not afraid to try new things.  The “girl” quality in a woman is important and I meet too many who seem hardened by their experiences.”

CHUCK:  39 – Railway Inspector

“I want a woman who is unselfish.  She must have a mind of her own and not be dependent on me for pleasure.  She also must be a lady, who would never disagree with me in public.  She would understand her place as a woman and allow me to lead.”

STAN: 38 – Fireman

“Her priorities in life will be of substance.  I don’t want a woman with a “schoolgirl” mentality looking for someone to take care of her.”

RICHARD: 41 – Computer Specialist

“The woman I’ll marry won’t wear fake hair, sculptured nails or excessive makeup.  She’ll be a natural beauty.  She will also be my friend and there won’t be anything I can’t share with her.  I’m tired of meeting women who place more emphasis on their physical beauty than their spiritual attraction.”

CALEB:  39 – Business Owner

“When I marry again, I will choose a woman who will have an interest in pleasing me as well as herself.  I will be convinced that she is loyal and trustworthy before I say I do.  I’m looking for a woman who has her own mind, and doesn’t listen to her girlfriends.”

NATE:  37 – Franchise Owner

“She will fit in anywhere she goes and have total respect for my opinion.  I’m also looking for a woman who can hold my attention.”

ROB:  47 – Neurologist –

“She will be fun-loving, adventurous, easygoing and hurdle-oriented.  Life is full of hurdles and I stay away from women who want to get married to have an easier life.  I want a full-fledged partner with a realistic view about the challenges of combining two personalities under the same roof.”

As I said, I’m sure some of you would find it hard to believe that a number of guys would rather do a bunch of other stuff alone, than end up in the arms of the wrong woman

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