The Singles Scene
by Sarah Smart
Q. I am in love with two different women in two different cities and both are pregnant. My problem is that I want to get married, but I can’t decide which one. My friends suggest I marry the one I think I can live with…but both of them are compatible in that area. If you were in my shoes, what would you do?
A. I would marry the one I can’t live without.
Q. I’ve been dating this guy for over a year and he was recently injured in a car accident. He is now disabled and in need of a devoted girlfriend. The problem is that I was planning to break up with him the day he was injured. I had begun seeing someone else, and I was done with him because of his tendency to be mean and temperamental. However, though I want out of the relationship, I feel guilty because of his predicament. I feel miserable but stuck. Any suggestions?
A. It’s not fair to you or him for you to pretend to feel what you don’t. Tell him the truth and experience the thrill of release. I’m sure he’ll survive.
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