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The Singles Scene

by Sarah Smart

Q.  I’m currently engaged to a man who has sole custody of his two sons and they are the most misbehaved kids in the universe. They call me names and spit at me when their father’s back is turned.  However, when their dad walks into the room, they become little angels. I am stressed out over this situation, because I love the man, but I can’t stand his children.  I’m afraid to tell him how they treat me because he’s so protective of them.  I know he wants me to be a mother to his kids, but I don’t want to be.  What would you do?

A.  I would tell him the real deal. Then I would attempt to use my feminine skills to charm and seduce those two little monsters into liking me.  Remember, despite how they act, they could possibly be managed through your creativity and imagination.  Remember they’re the children and you’re the adult.  Put your heart to the task and see what happens.

Q. Two years ago, one of my closest friends began dating an ex-boyfriend of mine from college and when she asked if I’d mind, I lied and said no. I resented her gall, but I didn’t want to appear petty.  Since that time, I’ve been pretending that I don’t care, but I do.  He dumped me in school, and I realized I haven’t forgiven him.  Now, they’re planning to be married and I haven’t been able to eat or sleep since I heard about it.  It has disturbed me so, that I’m thinking about uprooting, taking a new job offer, and relocating to another city.  What do you think??

I would suggest you work harder to forget about the past and close a door in your life that needs to be closed.  Right now, you need to be in search of inner peace and if that means relocating and removing yourself from the visual aspect of your sorrow, then maybe that’s not a bad idea.

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