Secrets To That
Great Love Match
by Jovan Tahale
With the divorce rate being so high these days, I was glad to have the opportunity to speak with nine happily married women, who were quite willing to share their secrets to a great love match.
Brianna: “A woman must never allow her fear of being without him, to overrule her self-respect. I learned the hard way that men are magnetized to women who will only accept the best from them.”
Lisa – “For the first two months of the relationship, I established the groundwork for respect, by not dialing his number. The competition is so great out here and men get bored so easily that a woman has to distinguish herself as a “royal find’ or she loses her ground quickly. She must establish early in the relationship that she is the one who must be treated like a princess.”
Sandy – “I accepted no excuses for bad behavior. If he disappoints me once, he’ll never get another chance, and I said that upfront, and I’ve never dated a man who didn’t go all out to please me.”
Shelle – “I learned to keep your deep feelings to yourself until he proposes. I don’t care what he says. Mystique will captivate a guy’s attention for centuries.”
Kathy – “Mix a cool demeanor with a touch of sweetness and he’ll never leave your side. My motto is…Never let your need for him show.”
Jenna – “Always manage to fit him into a busy life. Never let him see you sweat to be with him.”
Stephanie – “If you want love, don’t settle for sex.”
Vonnie – “Speak your true mind softly and he’ll honor you for it.”
Marcie – “Don’t complain, when you’re not being treated the way you want. Speak up and find the courage to get in another line and wait for what you want and do it for as long as it takes.”