10 Savvy Steps To A Happier You!

10 Savvy Steps

To A Happier You!

by Jan Pitts                     

• Fear Not!  Become adept at saying what needs to be said but in polite language.  Some will like you…others will fear you, but all will respect you.

• Stop! Don’t go near people or situations that appear unhealthy or suspect from a distance.  Save yourself some grief.  Listen to that inner voice and walk on by.

• Adopt This Position: Whatever happens today ends at midnight.  I will not carry the past into the next day.  And I will not worry about tomorrow.  I will greet each day with anticipation for good and with gratitude.

• Slow Down: Don’t look in every dark corner for affection.  Say to yourself,  I will not seek out love.  I will seek to love and reap the benefits of the action.
  

• Be Genuine: Don’t pretend to be who you are not.  Don’t pretend to know what you don’t know.  Be yourself and stick by it….and the world will admire your excellence.

• Select Correct: Don’t just be with anybody for the sake of some companionship.  Hold out to be cherished and respected.  But remember, respect is inspired…it is not necessarily bestowed.  To be held in high regard is usually inspired by the display of solid self-esteem.

• Pardon Protocol: Go and “mend the fence” with all those you need to forgive.  It will open the floodgates in your life to prosperity, healing, and peace of mind.  Don’t forget to atone for your deeds as well.  Remember, there is no value in holding a grudge, and you never know who you’ll need on a dark rainy night

• Brave Up:  “Don’t care so much about what others think.  There is no honor in it.  Those who think for themselves are highly revered.

• Desensitize: Don’t take everything personally.  Ignore the guy who’s in an impatient mood blowing at you from behind or the grouchy sales clerk..  Never waste your anger or stress energy on a stranger.

• Tune In: In dealing with others…Listen and listen well.  We so often hear what we want to hear instead of what is being said.