Does He Really Care?
Take This Test & Find Out!
by Coco Diong
Women test all the time in relationships and a great deal of the testing involves a crucial question: Does He Love Me? Variations of this are: Does he love/like me enough? Does he love me more then he loved his last girlfriend or does he love me as much as I love him? To get the answer to such uncertainties, some have been known to rely on the following techniques.
Trial By Phone. This is the entrance exam for all prospective mates. To win her heart and convince her of his interest, he must be able to dial well and often. Flash #1 Women like to be called and expect to be called within 24 hours of the initial meeting or encounter. This is a simple test that many men fail. Women also expect their phone calls to be returned promptly.
The Call Waiting Game: Does he tell other callers he’ll get back to them when he’s on the line with you? Does he get rid of his first call when you click in? Just one touch of the button can deliver significant information about your significance to him.
The History Test. If his conversations are laced with references to his ex-wife or ex-girlfriend, you may be asking for trouble. If you’re here (in the present) and he’s still back there; stuck in an old relationship that doesn’t exist, the future is grim. If a man still discusses the last woman in his life, he’s probably still unconsciously involved with her.
The Occasion Test: Does he care about you enough to want to spend important occasions with you? Christmas, New Year’s Eve, Valentine’s Day…His Birthday…Your Birthday?
The Gift Factor: Of course it’s the thought that counts. When a man gives a woman a gift, you get a pretty good idea of how much he likes you. Flash #2. All women love small, spontaneous gifts for no apparent reason and anything with an engraving on it.
The Crisis Test: What does he do when you get fired, a flat tire,burned out or fall down the stairs and break a leg? Does he stop his world and get off and be with you in your time of need or does he disappear until the sun shines again? This is the best way to tell if he really cares.