Bonita’s Blog How Good Is Your Name? by Bonita Bennett I have a psychologist friend who uses the school grading system to reference the character and likeability of people she knows. She feels that A’s are rare, and B’s are climbing, but that the average person is a C and content with it. She contends […]

From The Male Room How To Tell She’s Not The One… by John Traplen Recently, I took a beautiful woman on a first date to a friend’s birthday party at a restaurant, and every one of my male friends came over and made some admiring comment, either to her or me about how fine she […]

From The Male Room More Than Pretty… The Quality Men  Can’t Resist by Cal Jennings Susan could be initially viewed as unattractive if measured by today’s standards of beauty.   However, it seems she is always in the company of a male admirer, while her pretty counterparts are alone and bewildered by her popularity.  She has […]

Point Of View: Is “Hooking-Up” Bad for Women? by Dani Phillips Since the rise of the current hookup culture, many are wondering if hooking up is bad for women. The definition of what hooking up entails is tricky. It can include anything from a kiss to sex without any promise of a romantic relationship. Although […]

The Path To A Broken Heart                            by P. Smitts It was a while ago, but I remember it like it was yesterday.  It was midnight on a Saturday night, and I was sitting in from of the TV clutching my third glass of wine, lighting a cigarette while one still smoldered in the ashtray.  […]

Bonita’s Blog Friendship: Who Will Ride With You? by Bonita Bennett There can never be enough said about the value of true friendship and the role it plays in the life of a single person. Many are those who openly admit to not having any real friends, and feeling deprived. There are also those who […]

SingleScenes by Sarah Smart Q.  I met a guy online who appears to be everything I was looking for, but he’s white.  I feel good that his lifestyle has been so cultivated that my race doesn’t matter. However, I’ve been secretly dating him though I’m sure my family would probably be supportive, I’m concerned about […]

The Dating Chronicles The Talk Jan couldn’t focus on the menu as she sat across from Tom.  She knew he had invited her to dinner at her favorite restaurant because he had something to tell her. Her heartbeat was hard against her chest in anticipation of hearing it.  She knew he was seeing someone else […]

So…You Finally Met “The One.” by Lisa Laird Don’t become obsessed with what he/she thinks of you.  It’s what you think of yourself that counts. Trust your instincts for the truth to be apparent and take what is said with an open mind until he/she proves otherwise. Meanwhile, don’t cling to every word spoken like […]

22 Beauty Tips To Make You Dazzle’ by Gloria Gibson Eyes: Play up eyes by applying blusher high on the cheekbones and close to the outer corners of the eyes. After all, makeup has been applied, give further sparkle to the eyes with a tiny dab of baby oil on each outer corner. For a […]