by Sarah Smart
Q. I am currently dating a guy who is ten years younger than me, and I’m very paranoid about it. I don’t trust him, and I’m afraid to let him out of my sight. Whenever I see him talking to a woman his age, I feel sick inside. I really like this guy, but I’m miserable when he’s not around. I can’t figure out why he’s with me and it’s driving me crazy. He drives my car (BMW) and whenever he returns it, I go over it like a detective looking for evidence of another woman. What can I do to stop being so suspicious?
A. End the relationship, and seek out someone more in your age group, where perhaps you can feel more secure and find some personal peace..
Q. My boyfriend has asked me to marry him, and I’ve said yes. I agreed to marry him because he’s financially solvent, he’s good to me, and he loves my children, but I’m still in love with the father of my children. I love him, but I’m not in love. Should I tell him the truth about my feelings and give him back his ring…or should I keep silent for his sake. What would you do?
A. I would tell him the truth and give him back his ring.
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