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An obnoxious girlfriend flirted and slipped her business card to my date in front of me.

by Sarah Smart

January 19, 2019

Q.  I was out the other night with a new date and ran into a couple of girlfriends who are untrustworthy. Both of them gushed over the guy like he was a movie star and I saw one of them slip him a card, which he hurriedly put in his pocket and never mentioned. i thought the act was very disrespectful.  I’m furious.  But I don’t want to come across like I’m paranoid and jealous, so I’m afraid to say anything to him.  But I’m so angry I must do something.  What would you do?   Should I speak to him or her or both?

A.  Get some new friends and talk to my date only.  I would ask him about the card passing and measure his jerk status by his response.  If he denies the card…I would leave him to your friends.

Q.  Recently, I stopped by my girlfriend’s house unexpectedly and I overheard her telling a friend on the phone all about our relationship.  Some of the things she mentioned were very personal and private to me, and I resented her for it.  I broke up with her because I felt betrayed, but all my friends say that I’ve overreacting to a common occurrence.  What do you say?

A.  I say, I don’t blame you.  It may well be a common occurrence, but not one that we wish to witness.  I think that what goes on in a relationship should be kept sacred, and anyone who violates that rule should be flogged and dismissed, especially if they’re caught.  Good for you!

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