I just found out accidentally that my co-worker is dating my ex-husband.
by Sarah Smart
February 10, 2018
Q. I just found out that my ex-husband is dating my co-worker and I hate going to work and encountering her. I found out about them accidentally and I’ve been upset ever since. I can’t stand knowing who he’s with because of the way he treated me. I’m thinking about quitting my job so I don’t have to reminded of him. My friends think I’m over reacting. What do you think?
A. I think you should put mind over matter, get on with your life, forget about him and her and find another job before you quit. Sounds like you’re feeling possessive about something you no longer have. Grow up and face the music. He had to end up with someone. Why care who it is?
Q. I have a real problem. I’m in love with a woman who has a seven year old monster for a son. He is the worst child, and she can’t do a thing with him. I really want to marry this woman, but I can’t take her kid. I know his behavior would interfere with our marriage, because I’m miserable when I’m around him. So, I’ve ended the relationship. Do you think I did the right thing?
A. Yes, I do. I think you did the right thing for you. If you don’t wish to have the headache of dealing with a problem child, you got to do what you deem best for you. It’s just unfortunate because it sounds like the kid could use some intense but loving guidance from a male figure.
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