24 Things To Make You Better In 2020  MEN: If you don’t know how already…learn how to swim. Make sure your stomach does not distract from the real you!  If you have on a quality suit, it will fare better stylishly if you’re able to button the jacket. Create a self-image of a real man […]

Fatal Attractions? The Rise In Female Stalkers by CoCo Diong A former college professor was stalked for over five years by a student he befriended.  She showed up at his wedding uninvited and caused a scene by pushing his bride in a nearby pond.  She was obsessed with having him, and the harassment didn’t stop […]

Story Of The Week The Promise by Sandy Ellis Some things are meant to be, and I am now more convinced than ever.  Several months ago, I went on a job interview, and it was my third interview that day.  I was going through a serious transition in my life.  I was getting over a […]

Career 8 Ways To Blow A Job Interview by John Andes You put down the phone and sink down in disappointment.  You have just been told that you didn’t get the job and you don’t understand why.  As far as you’re concerned, it was a job that was meant for you.  It had your name […]

The Triangle War: Inside The Battle For Love by Jovan Tahale Not too long ago, my cousin and I were sitting in a restaurant enjoying lunch with a mutual friend.  Ironically, we were in the middle of a discussion on how smart women do dumb things, when we heard a loud noise coming from a […]

Your Thoughts: Mediocre Or Magnificent? by Bonita Bennett You are what you think…I learned long ago that to be comfortable with who you are is the epitome of true freedom.  I know several people who are prone to look down their noses at what they see as “lesser souls” while socially clamoring to be recognized […]

Great Winter Getaways For Lovers – Part 2 MUSTIQUE-GRENADINE ISLANDS Mustique lies 18 miles south of St. Vincent in a collection of unspoiled islands in the Eastern Caribbean. Mustique encompasses only 1,400 acres, measuring 1.5 miles wide by 3 miles long of rolling hills and lush terrain with stretches of deserted white sand beaches surrounded […]

Inside Chicago’s Party Scene: Attitudes, Opinions, Etc,. by Cheryl Lakes Everybody loves a good party, and a great party is even better.  Most describe a good party as good food, great music and interesting people in a great space.  For many singles, it’s one of the best places to hook up with the opposite sex, […]

The Dating Chronicles The Showdown Heather had made up her mind that the only way to solve this problem was to confront it.  She had been seeing Gordon for eight months now and he had still not severed his relationship with Jill.  He claimed they had been high school sweethearts, and that he felt compelled […]

SingleScenes by Sarah Smart Q. I saw my best friend’s boyfriend out with another woman, and he was the epitome of a gentleman with her.  He treats my friend like dirt, and she accepts it as “he just has a problem trusting women, because of his divorce.”  I’m tempted to tell her what I saw.  […]