Single Scenarios – Drama Dating

Single Scenarios

Drama Dating

Pam: “When I’ve met guys from time to time, whose dating moves were either awkward or too slow, I would take charge to urge the relationship along at my pace.  But the results always end in disappointment and abandonment.  I learned the hard way that any woman who appears to be “love-eager,” is setting herself up to be rejected.  If a guy moves slowly in a relationship, a woman should move slower.”

Tank: “I’ve vacated the dating scene for a while because of a sour experience I had not long ago. For some time, I’ve purchased gifts for women in high volume to help sway feelings my way that weren’t there in the first place.  It finally hit me when on a third expensive date with a schoolteacher, she informed me that we could only be friends.   “you try too hard to be liked, and I want a guy who is certain of his appeal.”

Kaitlin: “On the dating scene, I finally stopped accepting unacceptable behavior from the opposite sex. I speak up now where I didn’t before.  I show my disagreement when I should…I say no when I want to, and yes by mood only.  Now, I’m treated like a princess.”

Moya: “Last year, my boyfriend of three years, broke up with me to be with someone else, after promising we would marry.  I spent many sleepless nights trying to figure out what this other woman had that I didn’t, or what she gave him that I couldn’t. And just when I thought I figured it out (she was taller, better built, and prettier) he left her for someone who was shorter, thinner, and less attractive.”

Beth: “I am currently involved with a guy, who is involved with someone else.  It bothers me greatly that I’m in a triangle relationship, but deep down, I keep hoping that one day I’ll win out.  After all, he is single and as long as he doesn’t marry her, there’s reason to hope and compete.”

Colin: “I drive a bus for a living and I meet all kinds of women.  Recently, I went on a third date with a woman to a lavish party at her boss’ home. Before we arrived, she instructed me not to mention my occupation.  We had also driven her car, (she drives a Jag) because she didn’t think my Camry would make a good impression). When I heard her tell one of her colleagues that I was a college professor, I left the party after I introduced myself to her boss as her bus driver boyfriend.”.

Marcus: “The truth has no place on the dating scene. After chasing a beautiful woman for months, we finally went out.  After the date, I realized that she wasn’t my type, so I didn’t call again. When she called, I didn’t answer. When I ran into her at a party and she asked why I changed toward her, I explained that there was just no chemistry between us. She cursed me profusely for what she called a “punk brushoff.”

Laurie: “I went out on a 2nd date with a guy who rubbed my knee under the table all during dinner. I didn’t move my leg or resist the act because I was afraid he would be offended, even though I was uncomfortable.  Later, when we got to my door, he became angry when I wouldn’t let him come in and claimed that I led him to believe all night that I wanted him.”