by Sarah Smart
Q. I am depressed beyond measure and I don’t know what to do about it. Several months ago, I had too much to drink at an office party and ended up sleeping with my married boss. He offered me a ride home, and I forgot myself. I was lonely and he took advantage of my vulnerability. However, since that time, he continues to harass me sexually even though I told him it was a grave mistake that I regret. I can’t stand looking at him, but I’m afraid to resist him He’s a very vengeful person and I don’t want to lose my job. I haven’t told anyone what happened. Any suggestions?
A. You need to do two things. Begin looking for another job immediately if not sooner, and keep a written record of every time he approaches you inappropriately.
Q. I am in love with two different women in two different cities and both are pregnant. My problem is that I want to get married, but I can’t decide which one. My friends suggest I marry the one I think I can live with…but both of them are compatible in that area. If you were in my shoes, what would you do?
A. Marry the one I can’t live without.
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