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Smart Steps To

The Great Hookup

by Lisa Laird

  • Watch who you sleep with.  A smart woman treats her body like a sacred temple or an encrusted jewel box with precious gems inside.  In other words, she holds it in the highest regard, realizing that her womanhood is the doorway to her soul.  She knows that sex cannot get a man or keep him and that the real way to his heart is the seduction of his mind, which is totally governed by what intrigues him.


  • Never forego yourself. A woman’s attitude is assisted by her perception of herself.  Does she feel her femininity?  Is it fun being a girl?  It’s a high privilege to be a woman, and a woman should relish the opportunity to enhance whatever space she happens to be in with all that makes her who she is.  This quality should never be suppressed to impress.


  • Censor yourself. A woman should never give up her love history unless the dating relationship has moved to a serious state of existence.


  • Never accept less than what you want. It’s better to be alone with a heart that sometimes aches with loneliness than to be occasionally occupied in a relationship with a heart that’s hurting from the pain of its existence.  Hold out and hold up for the guy who will treat you how you wish to be treated.


  • Never place the outer over the inner. A woman’s spirit can overrule all aspects of her beauty. A woman with character is a distinguished sister.  A pretty woman with character is a magnificent sister, but an attractive woman with character and love in her heart is an awesome sister.  Character is the dimension of your personality that distinguishes you from others.  It is that pure soul element that sets you apart.


  • Put a latch on your tongue. Never use words that don’t belong to you. A person’s real appeal comes out of their mouth, and their words are usually a result of what’s going on in their heads.  It’s easy to meet attractive men and women, but it’s hard to meet those you can make a soul connection with.





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