The Ultimate Hook-Up – 5 Ways To Keep It Interesting

The Ultimate Hook-Up

5 Ways To Keep It Interesting

by Jan Pitts

• Don’t give up anything you don’t want the other person to have.
  The range includes everything from your favorite tennis racket to the quiet time you like to spend alone. When you give up things because you think the other person wants you to – you will one day feel very resentful and eventually drive the other person away with resentful talk about how much you’ve done for them.

 

• Don’t ask a question that you can’t stand a truthful answer to.
  A basic rule to follow is not to ask any questions that you are not prepared to hear the true answer or act on.
  
  
• Don’t make it a habit of letting your partner get away with things you don’t like.
  Relationships should be built on some type of equality and, if something really bothers you, you need to speak up about it. Does your partner bite his/her nails, constantly criticize you or try to boss you around?  If the thing that bothers you is something that your partner can change, you’ll feel like an idiot when they leave you for someone else and give up their offending ways.
  
  
• Don’t repeat the same mistakes you made in past relationships.
  By doing these things once, you already know they don’t work. If they did, you’d probably still be in that old relationship.  Learn from past errors and release them.
  
  
• Never try to push anyone to get married.
  Nobody wants to be pushed into a lifelong commitment. When people want to get married, they usually give off signals that culminate into a real