Single Scenarios Revelations Chad:  “I feel guilty about a relationship I got involved in where I knew the woman was too serious for what I had in mind.  She was hoping for marriage or at best a serious relationship and all I wanted was casual play. I learned she had a nervous breakdown when I […]

Ever Wonder What’s It Like Being With You? by Jan Pitts Last month, I met a guy for a blind date, and we were set to meet outside a popular restaurant.  He described himself and what he would be wearing, but I wasn’t prepared for how striking he was physically.  When I spotted him getting […]

6 Smart Steps To The Great Hookup by Lisa Laird Watch who you sleep with.  A smart woman treats her body like a sacred temple or an encrusted jewel box with precious gems inside.  In other words, she holds it in the highest regard, realizing that her womanhood is the doorway to her soul.  She […]

Story Of The Week Sudden Impact by Robin Smith When I first saw him, I let out a low whistle.  His handsome figure stood powerfully overseeing the moving of my personal possessions like a general directing an army.  He was tall with massive shoulders and smooth skin that glistened in the sun.  I was dressed […]

10 Things To Never Say To Your Lover by Jon Andes Never… Watch a guy struggle in a “fix it” situation, exhibit impatience, and then say “Let me do it.”  Talk about an ego-buster!  The words should always be “Want some help, honey?” Voluntarily (meaning without being asked) suggest they could stand to lose a […]

Viewpoint Women Don’t Know What They Want! By Carl Leland In my work, I talk to women frequently, who complain about the shortage of good black men.  However, I am personally aware of a number of good guys who are single and interested in marriage, but they have the hardest time getting to first base […]

The Dating Chronicles Bewildered Jake was beginning to feel frustrated and exhausted.  He had dated several women for the past few weeks, in hopes of replacing Kim, who he had dumped because she was high maintenance, but he was having no luck.  He found fault with everyone he took out, including the one last night.  […]

Single Sketches What To Do When… by Lisa Laird Scene:  You’re at the party with your date and he/she leaves you to talk to someone of the opposite sex. They are gone too long and your jealous button is pushed.  You go over, ignore the person they’re talking to, and pull them away or you […]

Story Of The Week The Anatomy Of A  Broken Heart  by Kenyatta Colbert It was my idea to surprise him, but it was not supported by my peers and loved ones.  They all tried to warn me that my plan was idiotic, but through my made-up mind, I pretended they approved.  It was his birthday […]

SingleScenes by Sarah Smart Q. For two months, I’ve been dating a guy who has proven to be a real gem. But I found out recently that he used to date my cousin some years ago. Supposedly, he ended the relationship and she’s still bitter about it.   My cousin learned about us and has stopped speaking […]