Date Rules  For The Road by Jan Pitts After a lengthy debate about dating etiquette with a friend whose brain excels in books, and vanishes at the sight of a handsome male when it comes to dating, I decided to compile a list of common sense “rules” for men and women. It is designed to […]

How To Be Chosen In The Crowd by M.K. Allison At a packed party recently, I noticed several women sitting alone waiting for someone to notice them and give purpose to their being there.  Most stared off into space, while others complained loudly that the men in the room were backward because they failed to […]

23 Steps To Your Best Self… by Bonita Bennett Consider The Following: Your Mind – The Bible says, “Bring your thoughts into captivity.” You must watch over what you think. Guard your thoughts as if your life depended on them. It does. Fight hard against ugly intrusions by focusing on the beauty in your life. […]

Single Sketches The Chat: Sex & The Single Life Kita: “When my friend died four years ago from AIDS, I stopped having sex. She and her partner contracted AIDS and both died. I’m abstaining because I don’t trust men anymore, and I don’t want to take the chance of sleeping with someone whom I really […]

From The Male Room How He Really Feels About You by Theo McNee             My friend Syl was miserable because he had been caught in a lie by his girlfriend about why he couldn’t make it to another one of her family gatherings.             Like me, he couldn’t lie well.  And because of this, he […]

The Love Search: How To Get What You Want by Terri Smith I finally learned the secret to getting true romance the way I want it.  It took some bangs and scratches along the way, which involved crying my heart over many, a “star-studded jerk.”  But I finally got it.  Here are the best ways […]

SingleScenes by Sarah Smart Q.  A year ago, my boyfriend of three years finally proposed to me, but he didn’t have the money to buy me a ring,.  So,  he asked me to buy my ring, and he would reimburse me later. Therefore, out of excitement and against my better judgment, I went out and […]

The Dating Chronicles Unhinged Tom was suspicious when he walked through Donna’s front door, but he didn’t say anything.  He had met Donna shortly after his bitter divorce. His experience with marriage had been a bad one and the pain of betrayal had driven him to bury his emotions so deep as to never see […]

Single Scenarios Frontline Flops Cindy – “I met a guy for dinner on our first date.  He was quite attractive and extremely interesting.  I was impressed with him overall, and his professed interest in art.  The evening went very well, and when the waiter brought the check, I was convinced that we were mutually enchanted.  […]

Viewpoints… When Women Do The Pursuing … by Dani Stone Recently, a close friend asked a very attractive co-worker, whom she’d been admiring for quite some time, if he would join her for drinks after work, and he declined the offer.  Of course, her ego took a serious plunge, and she berated herself for two […]