10 Steps To Make Him Cheat-Free by Terry Smith I have finally learned the secret to making a guy cheat-free.  It took some bangs and scratches along the way, which involved crying my heart over many a “star-studded jerk.” But I finally got it.  Here are the 10 best ways to captivate the heart of […]

Viewpoint Women Don’t Know What They Want! By Carl Leland In my work, I talk to women frequently, who complain about the shortage of good black men.  However, I am personally aware of a number of good guys who are single and interested in marriage, but they have the hardest time getting to first base […]

Story Of The Week Suddenly … by Robin Smith When I first saw him, I let out a low whistle.  His handsome figure stood powerfully overseeing the moving of my personal possessions like a general directing an army.  He was tall with massive shoulders and smooth skin that glistened in the sun.  I was dressed […]

10 Things To Never Say To Your Lover by Jon Andes Never… Watch a guy struggle in a “fix it” situation, exhibit impatience, and then say “Let me do it.”  Talk about an ego-buster!  The words should always be “Want some help, honey?” Voluntarily (meaning without being asked) suggest they could stand to lose a […]

SingleScenes by Sarah Smart Q.  My boyfriend of four months cries broke all the time because of his “responsibilities.” Whenever we go out, I spend the money.  I do this, so we can be together.  Most of the time, we’re home. I loaned him $100.00 once, and he never mentioned it again.  I didn’t say […]

The Dating Chronicles Regrets Chris was miserable as he stared out the window. He had left his wife for another woman and now that the divorce was final, he was about to marry her. He felt confused and disoriented with his current state of affairs. Discontentment had been plaguing him for months now.  On the […]

Single Sketches What To Do When… by Lisa Laird Scene:  You’re at the party with your date and he/she leaves you to talk to someone of the opposite sex. They are gone too long and your jealous button is pushed.  You go over, ignore the person they’re talking to, and pull them away or you […]

Confessing… Should You Tell? by Sierra Silverspoon We all have secrets. Some, we will never tell, and some, by the very nature of what they hide, need to be told.  But who do we tell them to?  Do we wait for someone we can trust, when a burden from our past is pushing us to […]

Boldness … ..A Social Necessity by Bonita Bennett Boldness:  You either have ’em or you don’t.  Liking yourself is the basis for it. When you like yourself, you develop the courage to be you.  When you can be yourself and enjoy the view, you can rise above the mediocrity that exists in the world and […]

Viewpoint How I Overcame Dating Despair by Lisa Monclair The setting was romantic. The lights were low and the music was soft, as I sat across the table from a man who had taken my appetite away.  He was perfect.  He was tall, handsome, resplendently dressed, articulate, funny, and respectfully employed.  I liked his hair, […]